Romantic love means different things to different people. For most there is a strong element of physical attraction involved. The lust element of love is a defining factor for most people in their quest for romantic love. Many find that once the lust element of their relationship fades they begin to feel just a friendship with their partner/spouse. Often by this time it is too late, and people may settle for companionship with their partner rather than having true romantic love.

Because falling and being in love is such an individual thing, it is impossible to give a totally accurate picture of what true love is. However, it should include at least some of the elements I have mentioned.